Friday, February 10, 2012

Dear all my sisters :)

Bismillahirrahmannirrahim (semoga setiap ayat dipandu olehNya, ameen)
Salam'alaik dear readers =)



Have you seen this video? especially to the sisters. If not, watch it first then read what i have wrote =)
Alhamdulillah ya Rabb, masih ada segelintir yang peka akan permasalahan ini :') and to this girl, Adibah, you really have the guts dear. The part that i like the most is when she said "PUT ISLAM BEFORE FASHION". Please sisters, do put religion in front of anything else, even when you are dressing up. I didn't say it is not allowed in Islam to be fashionable. Is Islam telling people not to dress up? not to wear nice cloth? No, Islam never teach that way. What Islam teach is cover your aurah properly, no matter what kind of cloth you are wearing. If suddenly one fine day garbage bag become fashionable, then wear it if you like but make sure it cover your aurah properly dear :)

eh siapa kata tak boleh berfashion? kan manis nie =)
*ihsan incik google huhu*

One paradigm that most hijabist now have in their mind is it is enough just to cover the hair, then it is perfect. No sisters no, it is not enough. 'Hijab' itself bring the mening of covering. Covering what? covering your aurah, in the most perfect way. Okay lets come to what is aurah first, aurah for us dear sisters is all part of our body except face and palm. So it is OBLIGATION for us to cover it properly :) How proper is proper? Okay lets put it this way, have all part of your body is covered up? check. Have the cloth you wearing is see through? i mean people can see what is inside the cloth? no? check. Have the cloth is too tight until you gasping for air? no? check. Do you pull down your hijab and cover your chest? check. Okayyy ready to go! :) ohh wait wait, how bout putting a pair of socks on those beautiful little feet of yours? For sure you dont want those perfectly pedicured toe-nail getting scratch from the rock. But remember, that is not the reason, feet is part of our aurah, that's why we need to cover it up =) It is okay if you don't want to wear socks, just make sure your skirts/kain/pants/shoes will covered it properly until it cannot be seen by anybody.

One more things is Haya' or modesty. Instill modesty in whatever we wear, or in how we carry ourselves. Don't wear something that looks like it come out from Lady Gaga's or Amy Winehouse's closet. One thing for sure dear sister, "less is more". It's not less in term of quantity of cloth on your body, no! It's less on your make up, the accessories you wearing etc. Nowadays, every single day we can see people wearing hijab *in this case i would rather say headscarf* in different style. Aha, we call it style, pusing sana belit sini pin situ jarum peniti berpuluh-puluh gaya yuna hana tajima najwa latif who some more. Eh tak salah, don't get me wrong, i'm okay with that. Just that i think sometimes here and there, there is some misconception about what is hijab. People wear it because of fashion, sad case. Niat dear sisters niat, like adibah *girl in the video* said lets make it because of Allah k :)  Wear it like Hana Tajima, wear it like Yuna, up to you but make sure it covering your chest, do not see through, do not expose your neck, and not too stand out. Remember modesty is our motto now =)

Yang tertutup itu lebih indah, percayalah :DD
*credit to google*

Labuh tudungku bukan bermaksud sempurna
Ia tanda pengabdian hanya kepada Dia
Benteng diri ini sementara masih tercari-cari
Cahaya Ilahi yang dirindui
Masih jauh perjalanan ini
Ini persinggahan sementara
Yang dituju itu negeri abadi
Yang harum mewangi

Satu tips buat sisters utk tahu sempurna tak kita menutup aurat bila keluar dari rumah, question ourselves, boleh tak kita solat dalam pakaian yang kita sedang pakai nie? =) 

Till fingers meet the keyboard
Jazakallahu Khairan Kathira
Assalamulaikum wbt

P/S: sekadar perkongsian kerana saya sayang anda semua! XD jika ade sebarang komen sgt dialu-alukan.

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